January 28, 2008 - 8:24 pm
I’ve been frustrated today with the amount of laundry that has been piling up in each of our rooms, the amount of dishes in the sink at the end of the day, and the amount of necessary paperwork I’ve been meaning to attend to.
I realized that I have gotten into the bad habit of stuffing things, and waiting until the need is urgent to get it done. I wait until there’s nothing clean to wear, before I do the laundry, wait until the bills are nearly late to pay them, wait until the very last minute, then work frantically, stress out, and get it done in the nick of time. So comes my desire to organize my time, but I don’t know how. I write lists, I have a day planner, but important things still slip through the cracks. So my first question is, how many people plan their days meticulously, or do you go with what comes at you and do what needs to get done?
I do this relationally as well. I think things don’t bother me, consider myself easy going, not too picky, not choosy, don’t care, go with the flow, and then something happens, and out of nowhere comes all these things I had no idea I felt, remembered or cared about. I stuff, and then out it comes when I can’t seem to take anymore. I want to be able to really really let things go. I want to stop stuffing. Are you a stuffer? Any suggestions?
~This is something I may be working on for the “21 day challenge.”